tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-367518755083475837.post547170066361699933..comments2023-06-12T05:13:53.766-07:00Comments on A weigh to go - from munter to minx: Of elephant trap soupPeridothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16325992771558910173noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-367518755083475837.post-90398419516936017322011-04-11T04:08:25.081-07:002011-04-11T04:08:25.081-07:00I sympathise on all fronts. Sometimes you can shru...I sympathise on all fronts. Sometimes you can shrug these things off and other times everything seems to be ganging up on you. Well done for spotting that you're going thru a tough patch and not beating yourself up about it.<br /><br />Yes, keep on keeping on and dont forget to notice the good stuff that is happening too!! <br /><br />And, as a legal bod, maybe start keeping a diary of every little incident with your boss as insurance. Where she has unduly and excessively criticised you or your work for example. If you know it was not necessary chances are you're right. Keep details of the incident and the work in a file noting how it made you feel then, if any action has to be taken, you're prepared. And the act of doing it will make you feel less powerless around the bitch.<br /><br />Lesley xxLesleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08197039686417212109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-367518755083475837.post-34498048381259386712011-04-11T02:31:56.541-07:002011-04-11T02:31:56.541-07:00The plan will fall into place, and the weight will...The plan will fall into place, and the weight will start to come off, i promise. It's not trying to trip you up, honest. It's all about the small changes, it's not always instant - it's about making changes you can sustain forever and you are really doing that. On the work front - could you talk to HR about mediation? Psycho bosses are no fun...clairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12488607759792842678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-367518755083475837.post-73658371896968927312011-04-09T03:52:49.802-07:002011-04-09T03:52:49.802-07:00I sympathise I really do - especially on the weddi...I sympathise I really do - especially on the wedding dress front. I always thought that getting married would be the golden bullet - you know, the thing that finally made the whole weight loss thing fall into place. <br /><br />I honestly think wedding dress shopping will still be joyous for you no matter what size you are. It just can't not be. And as for the dieting stuff - be it WW or SW I guess the only thing is to keep on keeping on. Because, what is the alternative? Speaking personally, it would be pounds and stone in the wrong direction.<br /><br />Have a lovely weekend, and enjoy the sunshine.<br /><br />SxSerenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08902775858327076421noreply@blogger.com