tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-367518755083475837.post4174844076626799079..comments2023-06-12T05:13:53.766-07:00Comments on A weigh to go - from munter to minx: Chewing the fatPeridothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16325992771558910173noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-367518755083475837.post-21178313255058227292012-01-19T18:56:27.810-08:002012-01-19T18:56:27.810-08:00I have to join this chorus of concern...
You real...I have to join this chorus of concern...<br /><br />You really have to try not to tie yourself up in knots over these (fairly arbitrary) goals you're setting for yourself. If you do your best, and you don't happen to make it to where you want to be, it will not be the end of the world, and you have to drill it into your mind that that is the case. Will you still be getting married? Yes. Will you still have family and friends who love you? Yes. <br /><br />I don't want to come over all new-agey but I feel like a bit of self-acceptance would go a long way towards making you happier.Gabbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11903283714971109062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-367518755083475837.post-26128266031824358602012-01-19T06:39:40.026-08:002012-01-19T06:39:40.026-08:00But lovely Peridot....getring married and what you...But lovely Peridot....getring married and what you wear while doing it is not an exam....there is no Fail option. I know you want to look your best but it is not the be all and end all. Personally I think you're putting yourself thru too much stress for the difference between a 14 and a 12. Especially when, knowing you a little, you will find something lovely and stylish in either size and will look gorgeous whatever you wear!! <br /><br />Keep up the good work but dont spoil the wedding prep fun by despairing about your weight FFS!!<br /><br />Your bossy but caring pal, Lesley... x xLesleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08197039686417212109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-367518755083475837.post-85577912578154664062012-01-18T23:40:39.121-08:002012-01-18T23:40:39.121-08:00I suppose the answer to your question is that you ...I suppose the answer to your question is that you have to believe that your best is going to be good enough or else you would just collapse in a traumatised heap. I mean one would, not you specifically. And perhaps that is the answer to an entirely different question...<br /><br />You're on track, the scales are shifting and that is what you have to concentrate on and celebrate at the moment. Well done. And enjoy your wedding breakfast tasting! <br /><br />SxSerenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08902775858327076421noreply@blogger.com