tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-367518755083475837.post1638848517487076396..comments2023-06-12T05:13:53.766-07:00Comments on A weigh to go - from munter to minx: Silver liningsPeridothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16325992771558910173noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-367518755083475837.post-86886366162812337482012-07-18T12:32:14.034-07:002012-07-18T12:32:14.034-07:00This makes my blood boil it is so unjust and horri...This makes my blood boil it is so unjust and horrible. A friend of mine went off sick with stress and then went through the pain of an employment tribunal regarding a bullying claim (she was being bullied). She won and it has worked out well for her (compensation and a new job)although I believe the time off while the claim went through was very difficult.<br /><br />It can be done. And possibly it might be the best thing TO do both for your position and for your confidence. She felt the affirmation that she wasn't incompetent was worth as much as the compo and the new position.<br /><br />But I understand totally if you don't want to go through that ordeal.<br /><br />I'm so so so sorry you are having to deal with this. <br /><br />Massive hugs from Derbyshire.<br /><br />Lesley xxLesleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08197039686417212109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-367518755083475837.post-54387294249777718292012-07-17T04:42:39.074-07:002012-07-17T04:42:39.074-07:00Oh you poor thing, it sounds dire. If getting out ...Oh you poor thing, it sounds dire. If getting out is the only real option then I hope you find something quickly - as Badger says, even if it just a stepping stone to something else. But in the meantime do you have any other recourse? A sympathetic union rep or some such? Your current situation sounds pretty intolerable.<br /><br />Big, big virtual hugs and fingers crossed for a speedy resolution.<br /><br />SxSerenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08902775858327076421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-367518755083475837.post-56509124463734842052012-07-17T01:52:11.832-07:002012-07-17T01:52:11.832-07:00I really feel for you hun ((((hug)))). I've be...I really feel for you hun ((((hug)))). I've been there and it's not nice or fair.<br />I will hope for a turn around in opinion for you but sometimes a new job is the only option. Look for a stepping-stone at the very least. My stepping stone turned out to work out well, and I've been here 5.5 years! xxBadgerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09929591223034024929noreply@blogger.com